You know what really sucks?
When a fandom ruins a ship for you. Like, you used to ship them, but now when you see them on your dash, or in fics, you suddenly remember shippers who are so horrible that you just feel nauseous.
"Maybe you’re not [heterosexual/homosexual/some kind of allosexual], maybe you’re just [insert love interests name]-sexual"
NO, NO THERE IS AN ACTUAL LEGITIMATE NAME FOR THAT
THERE IS A NAME FOR ONLY BE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THOSE YOU HAVE A DEEP EMOTIONAL BOND WITH